...it's like TV Tropes, but LINKED DATA!
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand
- 261 statements
- 48 feature instances
- 47 referencing feature instances
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | type |
FeatureClass | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | label |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | page |
GentleTouchVsFirmHand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | comment |
In a World… as great and populous as ours, there are naturally many different experiences, beliefs, situations, and ways of looking at things, but one major constant: our responsibility to shape a better world for the next generation. When these diverse mindsets meet this responsibility, an all-important question arises: how do we do it? Should we apply a gentle touch, or a firm hand? The Gentle Touch favors to keep their charge happy and healthy and offer kind, soft encouragement when helping them understand the situation and the role they play. The Firm Hand prefers Brutal Honesty and Tough Love to knock their pupil out of their comfort zone and onto the right path, and make very clear the consequences of straying from it. This dichotomy most often rears its head when two parents or Opposed Mentors argue over how to handle the young ones under their wing. The one who favors Gentle Touch (usually the Team Mom or Cool Teacher) will insist the other Was Too Hard on Him, and a lifetime laden with several harsh lessons and little comfort will do more harm than good in the long run. The other who favors Firm Hand (usually the Team Dad or Stern Teacher) will insist that everyone has to face the music at some point, and being reluctant to be Cruel to Be Kind means he'll never learn and end up a grandiose lowlife. It gets more heated when things are Exaggerated; an excessively Gentle Touch will accomplish nothing with their kid and pretty much let the Spoiled Brat walk all over them, whereas an excessively Firm Hand creates an unyielding regime of rules and chores with nary a privilege or reward in sight, resulting into a Broken Ace constantly teetering on mental collapse. The common Stock Aesops that arise from this are: An irresolute authority figure learning to get firm and lay down the law. A overbearing authority figure learning to be more gentle and allow more freedom. Two of the above concluding that Both Sides Have a Point, and that they must learn to strike a balance and apply both when necessary without being excessive. There's also potential for An Aesop for kids, too. Typically, the kid will have had enough of their authority figure's rules and punishments and wish they had an (excessively) Gentle Touch, leading to a Be Careful What You Wish For moment and the kid begrudgingly realizing the importance of a Firm Hand in his or her life. That said, the duality of this trope allows room for a Double Aesop in which the grown-up may realize that their ward is a lot better than given credit for, and resolve to be a bit more lenient. Of course, those are just the stock plots. When you think about it, this trope extends far beyond raising kids and comes into play in any situation where one influences another, and which side is best all depends on just who you are influencing. There are some people who, by nature, respond far better to Gentle Touch, and others who need more of a Firm Hand. The hallmark of Reasonable Authority Figures and Good Parents is the ability to recognize which is needed in the given situation, how much of it to apply, and with whom to apply it. Conversely, ones who apply too much of one (typically Firm Hand) are a ripe source of Parental Issues. The Sliding Scale of Idealism Versus Cynicism often plays a part in this, as storytelling in of itself can be an effective means of imparting one's influence. Different tales will often favor one over the other, be it the understanding nature of Gentle Touch or the challenging nature of Firm Hand. Harmony Versus Discipline is a Super-Trope. The Good Cop/Bad Cop routine is a Sub-Trope. Another sub-trope is Captain Smooth and Sergeant Rough. And to anyone looking for advice on tonight's date, look elsewhere, buddy. |
|
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | fetched |
2024-03-23T00:01:20Z | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | parsed |
2024-03-23T00:01:20Z | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to AloofBigBrother: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to BetterAsFriends: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to BrutalHonesty: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to DuelingWorks: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to HairOfGoldHeartOfGold: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to LazyBum: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to PantsPullingPrank: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to PlayedForLaughs: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to SitcomArchNemesis: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to SpiritualAntithesis: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to SpoiledBrat: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to StarWars: Not an Item - CAT | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to StartOfDarkness: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | processingComment |
Dropped link to backstory: Not an Item - FEATURE | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | isPartOf |
DBTropes | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_261c8d3f | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_261c8d3f | comment |
In The Simpsons, Homer and Marge could play either end Depending on the Writer. Although Homer often overreacts out of anger while Marge tends to be gentle and understanding, the episode "Itchy & Scratchy: The Movie" showed that Homer is actually a huge pushover when it comes to inflicting a sustained punishment on his kids with a cool head, so that Marge usually is stuck doing it. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_261c8d3f | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_261c8d3f | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| The Simpsons | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_261c8d3f | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_2ef7cb74 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_2ef7cb74 | comment |
In Lyrical Nanoha, this is essentially the difference between Nanoha and Fate's approaches to raising Vivio, exemplified in episode 15 of StrikerS, where 6-years old Vivio trips and falls. Fate immediately tries to rush to Vivio's side but Nanoha stops her because the ground is soft and Vivio is not hurt. Nanoha gently tries to reason with the teary-eyed Vivio (very much to Fate's anguish) encouraging her to stand up by herself.Spoilerish!This is reflective of their own childhoods, as Nanoha was forced to become independent at a young age due to the rest of her family being busy dealing with her father being in the hospital, while Fate was horrifically abused as a child and goes out of her way to avoid repeating her mother's misdeeds.In the end and to Nanoha's dismay, Fate cannot take it anymore and rushes to Vivio's side to pick her up. By the end of the season, as an exhausted and wounded Nanoha tries to walk over to Vivio, Vivio insists on going to Nanoha by herself. Similarly, in the "Magical Cooking" one-shot of the Magical Girl Lyrical Nanoha Comic à la Carte official anthology book, when Vivio serves up some awful cookies, Fate struggles with how to tell her that, but Nanoha says the cookies were terrible with a smile on her face, before explaining why Vivio's previous batch was much better. Interestingly enough, Nanoha's the Gentle Touch to Vita's Firm Hand when it comes to training the Forwards in StrikerS. While Nanoha gives her recruits intense training, she's careful not to overwork them, and is fairly understanding compared to Vita. After Teana nearly causes a friendly fire incident during the hotel battle, Vita gives Teana a tongue-lashing, while Nanoha gives Teana a calmer lecture (albeit because Vita already scolded Teana). Nanoha also contrasts with Signum this way. When Nanoha took Teana off of active duty that evening, not as a punishment for Teana's recklessness in the training exercise earlier that day, but because she was exhausted, she calmly explained her decision and didn't overreact when Teana took the decision personally. Signum, however, grabbed Teana by the shoulder mid-rant, whirled her around, punched her in the face to shut her up and told Nanoha not to coddle Teana. |
|
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_2ef7cb74 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_2ef7cb74 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Lyrical Nanoha (Franchise) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_2ef7cb74 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_2f340346 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_2f340346 | comment |
In Of Blood and Steel, Riko "Erwin" Matsumoto comes off as a Firm Hand compared to Miho's Gentle Touch. While Miho is fairly forgiving of her teammates when they make mistakes, Erwin says, "You don't give a person a medal for failing, you give them a demeaning task to make them mull over their failure." Word of God has it that this is a reference to the real Erwin Rommel's (Erwin's idol) hatred of cowards and deserters. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_2f340346 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_2f340346 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Of Blood and Steel (Fanfic) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_2f340346 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_347ec243 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_347ec243 | comment |
Monster Rancher: Early on, Genki and Holly disagree about the best way to treat the newly unlocked Mocchi. Genki's used to playing the MR games and favors a Firm Hand, while Holly argues that he's just a baby and needs a gentler touch. Genki's attitude soon shifts, and he learns how to take a more balanced approach. Notably, the downsides of Holly's approach are also shown through her own partner, Suezo. Her softness led to him being badly spoiled, and he's generally regarded as the least powerful member of the team, having learned very few attacks before circumstances forced them to begin their journey. Tiger used a Firm Hand in regards to his younger brother Gray Wolf, playing the Aloof Big Brother in order to toughen him up. Unfortunately, this gets Deconstructed, as his harshness gave Gray an inferiority complex — one that Moo used to convert Gray into one of his elite warriors. |
|
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_347ec243 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_347ec243 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Monster Rancher | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_347ec243 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_35bceb50 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_35bceb50 | comment |
In Hamlet, this is present in how Gertrude and Claudius get people to do things. Gertrude tends to ask politely, using empathy and diplomacy, while Claudius tends to tell people what to do, using authority and forcefulness. Who responds to who also says a lot about the other characters. Hamlet responds to Gertrude; Rosencrantz and Guildenstern respond to Claudius. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_35bceb50 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_35bceb50 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Hamlet (Theatre) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_35bceb50 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_35e05f2a | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_35e05f2a | comment |
This briefly comes up in an episode of RWBY. Glynda Goodwitch scolds her students for throwing a Food Fight when they're training for a great and important duty. Professor Ozpin retorts that it is because of that great and important duty that they should be allowed to have a little fun and be kids while they still can. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_35e05f2a | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_35e05f2a | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| RWBY (Web Animation) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_35e05f2a | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_3790ae45 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_3790ae45 | comment |
Discussed in Double Homework regarding the different ways Mr. Adler and Dr. Mosely speak to the protagonist about the avalanche. Dr. Mosely gets straight to the point, while the protagonist notes that Mr. Adler never really mentioned it directly. Justified in that Mr. Adler is a real school counselor, while Dr. Mosely is a government scientist who needs the protagonist to do certain things for one of her experiments. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_3790ae45 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_3790ae45 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Double Homework (Visual Novel) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_3790ae45 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_3f6731b2 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_3f6731b2 | comment |
The Meaning of One shows the different reactions of Mr. and Mrs. Weasley to Harry and Ginny's bond. Mr. Weasley is generally more supportive of their needs and curious about the bond's effects, while Mrs. Weasley is more alarmed about how they have to share a bed and can't avoid experiencing each other's showers. It's made clear, though, that Mr. Weasley is still concerned about what this means for Ginny, and Mrs. Weasley is upset because she loves Ginny very much; they just show their feelings in different ways. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_3f6731b2 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_3f6731b2 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| The Meaning of One (Fanfic) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_3f6731b2 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_400469e | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_400469e | comment |
In Calvin and Hobbes, every authority figure in Calvin's life is very quick to apply Firm Hand, as they can see him only as a Bratty Half-Pint. Eventually, babysitter Rosalyn decides to apply a little Gentle Touch; she'll let Calvin stay up an extra half-hour to play the game of his choice on the condition that he behave himself and do his homework. Surprisingly, Calvin is quick to hold up his end of the bargain for a chance to rope Rosalyn into a game of Calvinball. Rosalyn feels that was a mistake at first, until she gets the hang of things and manages to beat Calvin at his own game, getting him to come in to bed with no difficulty. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_400469e | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_400469e | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Calvin and Hobbes (Comic Strip) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_400469e | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_404622d6 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_404622d6 | comment |
The Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends special Destination: Imagination has Frankie representing the Gentle Touch (taking the time to understand the current situation and what each friend needs), and Mr. Herriman delivers the Firm Hand (assigning harsh punishments and expecting that to end the problem). Frankie's Gentle Touch proves far more valid when she's able to understand the Woobie, Destroyer of Worlds' issues and help him realize that he doesn't need to act out to protect what's important to him, whereas Herriman's Firm Hand becomes an Interrupted Cooldown Hug that triggers him into throwing a Suicidal Cosmic Temper Tantrum. It's this that gets Herriman to finally concede to Frankie's wisdom on the matter, and she's able to defuse the situation. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_404622d6 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_404622d6 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_404622d6 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_455e3038 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_455e3038 | comment |
King of the Hill, being set in suburban Texas and often expressing the idea that Good Is Old-Fashioned, tends to hold Firm Hand more favorably: One episode has Peggy dealing with a particularly disobedient student who pants her in front of the entire classroom, and she responds by spanking him. While spanking isn't technically illegal in her particular school, its frowned upon enough that the school fires her over it. This sparks an odd debate of sorts among the cast, as many of the adult cast members were spanked at school and now openly disapprove of it, though Cotton and the parents of that generation openly think it's a great idea and petition to get Peggy her job back. Once back at school she openly flaunts her new authority before realizing she's only frightening her students and acting like a maniac and beginning to scale things back, resolving to inspire respect rather than command it. This happens in the episode where Peggy recovers from a skydiving accident. Her assigned physical therapist is the Gentle Touch, encouraging her to take things at an easy pace and not overexert herself, but it's her Sitcom Arch-Nemesis, Cotton, that proves to be the Firm Hand necessary to get her to push her limits and make actual progress. This also gets Played for Laughs in the episode where Luanne and Lucky look after Bobby in preparation of the kid they're expecting. Since they're friends and Bobby is a generally good kid, they have no problem with the Gentle Touch, but eventually they start to fear they won't be able to effectively discipline, and start exercising Firm Hand... as in, nothing but Firm Hand. When that doesn't work, they realize they need to try for a balance... which they try by rapid-fire alternating between soft and strict, leaving Bobby confused. |
|
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_455e3038 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_455e3038 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| King of the Hill | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_455e3038 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_503d5009 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_503d5009 | comment |
Shirogane of Ayakashi Triangle is allowed to live in hopes that he could be reformed and change Matsuri back into a boy. Suzu is optimistic and caring, treating him with kindness in hopes of befriending him. Matsuri only spared Shirogane on Suzu's insistence, openly expects nothing better than keeping him out of trouble, and is quite vitriolic toward him even when they manage to cooperate. Ultimately, Suzu manages to befriend Shirogane while Matsuri's refusal to trust him makes him miss out a chance to become male again. Matsuri takes this as An Aesop about considering more options than head-on attack. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_503d5009 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_503d5009 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Ayakashi Triangle (Manga) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_503d5009 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_51e504f7 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_51e504f7 | comment |
build your wings on the way down has Hughes as the Gentle Touch and Mustang as the Firm Hand. Hughes treats Ed like his actual age, being a caring Parental Substitute to the boy. Mustang treats him more like a soldier, being willing to invoke Cruel to Be Kind gambits to ensure Ed can grow into a better person. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_51e504f7 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_51e504f7 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Build Your Wings on the Way Down / Fan Fic | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_51e504f7 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_5319ce6c | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_5319ce6c | comment |
Spy X Family: At the beginning of the story Loid has a lot of trouble getting his adoptive daughter Anya to study, since she suffers from bad memories of all the tests she was forced to do during her time as a lab experiment, not to mention Loid's way of teaching is boring and based on repetition. Then an old retired professor, Sigmund Authen, becomes their new neighbour and accepts to act as Anya's tutor in Classical Language, using Anya's interest in Spy Wars as a basis for his teachings. The result? Anya ends up getting the SECOND best grade in Classical Language in her finals. This makes Loid realize that, because he always saw learning as a means to an end in his spy job, he never once consider that learning could be an enjoyable experience. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_5319ce6c | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_5319ce6c | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| SPY×FAMILY (Manga) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_5319ce6c | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_569093cc | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_569093cc | comment |
DuckTales (2017): A running theme in Della Duck's character arc is she's Maternally Challenged due to having been stranded away from home and her sons since before they hatched. In particular, Mrs. Beakley espouses the need a Firm Hand while Della would much prefer the Gentle Touch and let the kids be kids. This comes to a head in the episode "Timephoon!", where Louie's actions nearly cause the entire family to be lost in time. Ironically, Mrs. Beakley is among those who are willing to forgive Louie, since everyone knows nothing he did was done out of malice, while Della realizes that she needs to put her foot down and grounds Louie for his actions, with the next episode showing her taking extreme measures to make sure he doesn't try to sneak away when the family leaves the house without him. When Della acknowledges how hard doing that was, Mrs. Beakley commends her and assures her it will make her son a better person in the long run. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_569093cc | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_569093cc | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| DuckTales (2017) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_569093cc | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_584365d4 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_584365d4 | comment |
Shown in Melody with regards to how different types of authority figures interact with the title character: With Melody's tutors, the protagonist lets Melody set the direction of her lessons in large part, especially with letting her choose which instruments to play. Her previous tutors decided everything about her tutoring sessions. It’s easy to see which side the developers take: the protagonist turns Melody into a musical sensation, while her previous tutors barely taught her anything. As for the way that Melody is parented in her late teens, Arnold is said to be very strict with her (though the players don’t see much of this for themselves), and kicks her out of the house for using his car without permission and damaging the bumper. Amy, on the other hand, always extends a hand to Melody in case she needs it, and offers her help and confidence at all times. Since Arnold relents, and it turns out to be the best thing ever for his relationship with Melody, it’s clear that the developers favor gentle in this case too. |
|
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_584365d4 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_584365d4 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Melody (Visual Novel) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_584365d4 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_5c600b17 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_5c600b17 | comment |
Digimon Adventure: The ultimate conflict of the original anime between Taichi and Yamato is whether to push the team to rid the world of the Dark Masters as quick as they can or to meet the team's needs before carrying on. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_5c600b17 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_5c600b17 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Digimon Adventure | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_5c600b17 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_60f02ddb | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_60f02ddb | comment |
American Dad!: One episode follows this conflict point by point when Stan and Francine fight over how to raise Steve. They decide things by creating a clone of Steve called Stevearino and raising each their way. Under Francine's lenience, Steve becomes a lazy, ungrateful, entitled Jerkass, while under Stan's strictness, Stevearino becomes a murderous psychopath. Naturally, the two come to see the value in each others' parenting style, and agree to work together more. Another episode sees Stan deciding to go the excessively Gentle Touch route and treat Steve as more of a buddy than a son. Eventually, he learns that parents cannot afford to be Better as Friends with their kid, since they have to shape their well-being, and regains his Firm Hand. |
|
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_60f02ddb | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_60f02ddb | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| American Dad! | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_60f02ddb | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6274f0aa | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6274f0aa | comment |
Leo: The 5th grade class's original teacher, Mrs. Salinas, was a much nicer and more lenient teacher, but she ends up going on a maternity leave early in the school year, and is replaced by the much grumpier and old-fashioned Ms. Malkin, who derides teaching tools like laptops or encouragement stickers. The students hate her, but it's shown later on she's tough on them because she genuinely wants them to reach their greatest potential and is deeply hurt when she overhears how much they can't stand her and that their progress over the school year was actually due to Leo's kinder help rather than her own stricter methods. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6274f0aa | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6274f0aa | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Leo | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6274f0aa | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_63230cb | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_63230cb | comment |
Dragon Ball Z Abridged sets up this comparison with its take on Android 16's Dying Speech to Gohan. In Dragon Ball Z, 16's speech was more compassionate, understanding why Gohan feared his rage while imploring him to accept it in this dire strait, The abridged version instead calls out Gohan's Holier Than Thou Suicidal Pacifism that will only end up allowing evil to prevail. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_63230cb | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_63230cb | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Dragon Ball Z Abridged (Web Video) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_63230cb | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6744d821 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6744d821 | comment |
Willow's fathers in The Owl House seem to fall into this dynamic as shown by their reaction when she's briefly expelled from Hexside. Harvey grounds her for three years immediately after finding out and later sets up a plan to homeschool her so she can still get a decent education. Gilbert on the other hand puts more emphasis on how they'll be spending more time together as a family and covers for her when he catches her sneaking out of the house to help Amity and Gus rescue Luz. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6744d821 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6744d821 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| The Owl House | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6744d821 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6e5aea01 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6e5aea01 | comment |
Trail of Glory: Generals Ross and Pakenham spontaneously decide to do this during a debate with an unreasonable admiral to make him compromise to minimize the risk to their soldiers. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6e5aea01 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6e5aea01 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Trail of Glory | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_6e5aea01 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_71169c78 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_71169c78 | comment |
An episode of Chowder is the Trope Namer, in which Chowder starts to look up to Truffles (firm), causing Mung Daal (gentle) to compete with her over Chowder's admiration. Torn between the two, Chowder eventually comes across a Veggie Guru who sings him a song about how "it takes a gentle touch and a firm hand", advising him to seek guidance from both. Of course, Chowder, being the Cloud Cuckoo Lander that he is, starts looking up to Schnitzel instead. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_71169c78 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_71169c78 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Chowder | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_71169c78 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_72262aee | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_72262aee | comment |
Avatar: The Last Airbender: This plays a part in Aang's Backstory, mixed with The Needs of the Many. Aang was told of his status as the Avatar four years earlier than usual, due to rumors of war on the horizon. While his guardian, Gyatso, believed that Aang should still be able to take breaks and have fun, the other monks believed that his duty to the world outweighed his personal needs, and made plans to send him to a stricter mentor. Unfortunately, no-one found out which side truly was better since Aang ran away and ended up a Human Popsicle, and war struck his people far sooner than predicted. The episode "Bitter Work" plays Aang's Waterbending teacher, Katara, as the Gentle Touch, and his Earthbending teacher, Toph, as the Firm Hand. This isn't helped by the hard-rooted mentality of Earthbending being in direct opposition to the free-spirited mentality of Aang's native Airbending, causing him to suffer a mental block. Katara asks Toph to be a bit more encouraging in her tutelage, and while she's resistant at first, she does admit that encouragement did help (albeit after Aang learned to stand his ground in a Die or Fly moment). |
|
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_72262aee | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_72262aee | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Avatar: The Last Airbender | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_72262aee | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_73d7930f | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_73d7930f | comment |
Star Trek: Deep Space Nine: When Odo is responsible for a newly discovered infant changeling, he refuses to experiment on it like Dr. Mora did to him, because a lot of the tests were painful and pointless. Odo tries to get the changeling to shapeshift by just talking to it, which doesn't work. Dr. Mora tells Odo that without any discomfort, the changeling will remain a motionless lump of gelatinous liquid indefinitely. Eventually Odo relents, but because Odo only uses the minimum amount of discomfort necessary, the infant ends up progressing far faster than Odo did. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_73d7930f | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_73d7930f | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Star Trek: Deep Space Nine | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_73d7930f | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_76e539c2 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_76e539c2 | comment |
Interestingly enough, Nanoha's the Gentle Touch to Vita's Firm Hand when it comes to training the Forwards in StrikerS. While Nanoha gives her recruits intense training, she's careful not to overwork them, and is fairly understanding compared to Vita. After Teana nearly causes a friendly fire incident during the hotel battle, Vita gives Teana a tongue-lashing, while Nanoha gives Teana a calmer lecture (albeit because Vita already scolded Teana). | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_76e539c2 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_76e539c2 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Magical Girl Lyrical Nanoha StrikerS | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_76e539c2 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_7832b74c | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_7832b74c | comment |
Steven Universe: This was the dynamic Blue and Yellow Diamond had with fellow Diamond Authority member Pink Diamond. Yellow was the Firm Hand, being a strict disciplinarian who would constantly come down on Pink for not acting as a Diamond was supposed to. Blue was the Gentle Touch, offering emotional support and actually listening to Pink's concerns. Unlike most examples, both are seen to be toxic because they're applied in severely unhealthy ways. Pink wanted to be seen as an equal by the duo but Yellow was incredibly aloof because of Pink's apparent childishness and wasn't above physically manhandling her if Pink stoked her temper. Blue on the other hand was more gently reproachful to Pink's mistakes but her support tended to be about nudging Pink into conforming more with Homeworld's Fantastic Caste System and while she tried to help Pink with issues that she brought up, it tended to come across as Condescending Compassion which hit just as bad as Yellow's straight forward temper to Pink. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_7832b74c | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_7832b74c | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Steven Universe | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_7832b74c | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_7aaf9e41 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_7aaf9e41 | comment |
This is explored in Batman in relation to the various Robins. Batman himself is naturally a Firm Hand who sternly prepares them for their lives as crime-fighters and the hardships ahead. Alfred meanwhile acts as a Gentle Touch to help them recover from any related trauma and cope with what's happening around them. This is most apparent with Dick Grayson, whose rearing was much rockier than the other Robins, being the "first child." | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_7aaf9e41 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_7aaf9e41 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Batman (Comic Book) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_7aaf9e41 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_80942169 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_80942169 | comment |
Ned's Declassified School Survival Guide: In her one appearance, guidance counselor Mrs. Splitz embodies both sides to an humorously bipolar degree, able to switch between a rip-roaring Drill Sergeant Nasty to a pleasant, friendly lady (albeit prone to Suddenly Shouting) at the drop of a hat. As she explains, this is because she knows to take a unique approach with each student, such as the Ditzy Genius Cookie or the Brilliant, but Lazy Ned. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_80942169 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_80942169 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Ned's Declassified School Survival Guide | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_80942169 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_833ad429 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_833ad429 | comment |
In Daughter for Dessert, the protagonist and Amanda have very different ideas for how to manage their employees. The protagonist wants to pay wages that are above the market rates but fair in his mind, while Amanda wants to pay at or close to the market rates. Also, when Lily struggles in the kitchen, the protagonist wants to give her a chance to get the hang of the work, while Amanda would rather just fire her. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_833ad429 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_833ad429 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Daughter for Dessert (Visual Novel) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_833ad429 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_91684031 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_91684031 | comment |
Pokémon Black and White: Contrary to their appearances, the edgy black dragon Zekrom strives for ideals (Gentle Touch) whereas the angelic white dragon Reshiram strives for truth (Firm Hand). | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_91684031 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_91684031 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Pokémon Black and White (Video Game) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_91684031 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_945b7a4f | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_945b7a4f | comment |
The Tangled: The Series episode "You're Kidding Me" sees Rapunzel and Eugene become Designated Parents when Cassandra, Lance, and Shorty get hit by a Fountain of Youth. Rapunzel (the Gentle Touch) ends up having to put her foot down when dealing with Cassandra, while Eugene (the firm Hand) has to show a softer side when dealing with Lance. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_945b7a4f | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_945b7a4f | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Tangled: The Series | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_945b7a4f | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_94a48c69 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_94a48c69 | comment |
Kea's Flight: When Brandon tries to interrogate Kea, he threatens her and her friends with harsh punishment over the loudspeaker, then turns sickeningly sweet as soon as he enters her room. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_94a48c69 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_94a48c69 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Kea's Flight | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_94a48c69 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_960062b7 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_960062b7 | comment |
My Hero Academia: In Tenko's backstory, his parents had very different approaches to his upbringing. His father, Kotaro, disapproved of Tenko's dream of becoming a hero and would punish him by locking him in the backyard for playing heroes, or even mentioning them in his presence. His mother, Nao, was a kindhearted woman who did her best to console Tenko after he was punished by his father. However, she was too meek and submissive to stand up to her husband's abusive treatment of their son. When Tenko's Decayed Quirk finally manifested, his parents both responded according to their parenting styles during their final moments. Nao ran to him in an attempt to hug him, but she was accidentally killed as her body fell apart, while Kotaro wielded a garden tool to protect himself from his scared son and was purposely killed by said son. Ultimately, both Kotaro and Nao failed as parents, with their son growing up to become one of the series' main antagonists, Tomura Shigaraki. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_960062b7 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_960062b7 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| My Hero Academia (Manga) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_960062b7 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9b1333a5 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9b1333a5 | comment |
Top Gun: The Top Gun commanding officers, Commander Mike "Viper" Metcalf (Gentle Touch) and Lt. Commander Rick "Jester" Heatherly (Firm Hand). Viper had served alongside Maverick's father during the Vietnam War, and thus acts as a parental figure towards him, consoling him after Goose's death during a training mission, while Viper is entirely no-nonsense as a training instructor. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9b1333a5 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9b1333a5 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Top Gun | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9b1333a5 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9ef055f4 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9ef055f4 | comment |
Ratchet & Clank has Ratchet as the no-nonsense Firm Hand, and Clank and as the diplomatic Gentle Touch. This is best seen when they confront Captain Qwark for deserting the battle against Dr. Nefarious out of sheer narcissistic cowardice. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9ef055f4 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9ef055f4 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Ratchet & Clank (Franchise) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9ef055f4 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9ff55031 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9ff55031 | comment |
Marooned in Madagascar: Maurice and Karl have this argument over how to handle King Julien's troubled relationship with his parents in The Odd Family. Though Maurice initially tries to make Julien understand how toxic his relationship with his parents is, after being greeted with anger and accusations from the heartbroken ringtail, he then tries to slip a note to Julienne and Barty to remind them to stay for their son's birthday, to spare Julien from more heartbreak. Karl, however, steals the note and destroys it, telling Maurice that they need to force Julien to confront the cold, hard truth in order to break him out of his delusion, citing his own experience in A Foe In Need as proof of its effectiveness. After being told by the fanaloka that he's only hurting Julien more by enabling the latter's delusions, Maurice reluctantly agrees that Karl is right. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9ff55031 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9ff55031 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Marooned in Madagascar (Fanfic) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_9ff55031 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_a4a235b9 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_a4a235b9 | comment |
Hinata and Teru's approach towards Sumino in I Am Here!. One shows his support by offering kind words and being a sweet Nice Guy. The other "helps" by bluntly pointing out her flaws in order to make her stronger. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_a4a235b9 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_a4a235b9 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| I Am Here! (Manga) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_a4a235b9 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_a8c3a071 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_a8c3a071 | comment |
Oddballs: In "Raising Toasty", James and Max fall into the dynamic. James is the gentle touch, being nurturing and affectionate towards Toasty, and being understanding when he screws up. Max is the firm hand, being a strict disciplinarian who is more interested in using Toasty as a guinea pig (echoing back to how Max's parents raised him). Predictably, James and Max end up clashing over their different parenting styles, angering Toasty to the point of a Face–Heel Turn. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_a8c3a071 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_a8c3a071 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Oddballs | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_a8c3a071 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b0b4e8ff | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b0b4e8ff | comment |
Jade Empire has a morality system that revolves around the way of the Open Palm, which is the gentle touch, and the way of the Closed Fist, which is the firm hand. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b0b4e8ff | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b0b4e8ff | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Jade Empire (Video Game) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b0b4e8ff | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b6d53f19 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b6d53f19 | comment |
In Twisted Wonderland, the leader and vice leader of the Pomefiore dorm have differing ideas and methods on how to train people. Vice leader Rook Hunt is more likely to offer gentle encouragement/advice to dorm member Epel Fermier and the other students, all while cheerfully praising their efforts. On the other hand, Vil Schoenheit is more likely to strictly criticize other students on their flaws, pushing them to be better, if not their very best. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b6d53f19 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b6d53f19 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Twisted Wonderland (Video Game) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b6d53f19 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b6e6a7c7 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b6e6a7c7 | comment |
This the key comparison between the depiction of Mary Poppins in the original PL Travers book, and the version of Mary Poppins from Walt Disney Pictures. Travers' Mary Poppins embodied Good Is Not Nice, being very sharp-tongued and opinionated. Disney's Mary Poppins eventually Took a Level in Kindness and became the gentle, cheery nanny she's known as today. Naturally, that was discussed in Saving Mr. Banks, which revolves around the Creative Differences between the two and their vision for the film adaptation. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b6e6a7c7 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b6e6a7c7 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Mary Poppins | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_b6e6a7c7 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_d36dd4db | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_d36dd4db | comment |
The Villains Series: When it comes to how the interact with Sydney, Mitch is the Gentle Touch to Victor's Firm Hand. Victor is strict and convinced he knows the right course of action, and won't stand for Sydney arguing, though it's clear it comes from a place of concern for her well-being. Mitch is more understanding of Sydney's frustration and loneliness, and attempts to compensate for their restrictive lifestyle by giving her treats and occasionally (gasp!) taking her outside without telling Victor. Mitch also takes it upon himself to homeschool Sydney, while Victor is more concerned with keeping them from being discovered. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_d36dd4db | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_d36dd4db | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| The Villains Series | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_d36dd4db | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e3876b26 | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e3876b26 | comment |
Digimon Frontier: Seen again between Takuya and Kouji during an early episode when they and Tagalong Kid Tomoki wind up in a theme park-themed land. Takuya wants to let Tomoki play around and de-stress, but keeps getting caught up in things himself, failing to steer Tomoki. Kouji wants to drag the kid along to get back on track, but he's such complete Jerkass about it that he ends up making things needlessly stressful. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e3876b26 | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e3876b26 | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Digimon Frontier | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e3876b26 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e5fcce6b | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e5fcce6b | comment |
This is a key element in Wife Swap, along with Bigot vs. Bigot. Typical swaps happen between an Open-Minded Parent willing to allow her kids the freedom to express and enjoy themselves as they please, and a militantly strict matriarch who holds her brood to traditional values and discipline. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e5fcce6b | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e5fcce6b | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Wife Swap | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e5fcce6b | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e936047a | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e936047a | comment |
Hey Arnold!: The two most prominent/recurring staff workers at P.S. 118, Mr. Simmons is calm, polite and soft-spoken who always tries to find a more reasonable and understanding solution to problems when it comes to his students and Principal Wartz is a much more assertive Dean Bitterman who is not afraid of giving out harsh punishments. This is best exemplified in the episodes, "Principal Simmons" and "Curly Snaps". | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e936047a | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e936047a | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Hey Arnold! | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_e936047a | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_f61ea51b | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_f61ea51b | comment |
Interview with the Vampire (2022): In "A Vile Hunger for Your Hammering Heart", the vampire dads are in agreement that Claudia's serial killing is an issue, but Louis de Pointe du Lac prefers a gentle approach while Lestat de Lioncourt does not. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_f61ea51b | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_f61ea51b | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| Interview with the Vampire (2022) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_f61ea51b | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_fa914bee | type |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_fa914bee | comment |
The Peace Not Promised shows a rather stark contrast when the new Head Girl and Boy are introducing themselves to the prefects. | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_fa914bee | featureApplicability |
1.0 | |
| Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_fa914bee | featureConfidence |
1.0 | |
| The Peace Not Promised (Fanfic) | hasFeature |
Gentle Touch vs. Firm Hand / int_fa914bee |
The following is a list of statements referring to the current page from other pages.
Copyright of DBTropes.org wrapper 2009-2013 DFKI Knowledge Management. Imprint. - Thanks to Bakken&Baeck for hosting. Contact.
Copyright of data TVTropes.org contributors under Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 3.0 Unported License.
Copyright of data TVTropes.org contributors under Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 3.0 Unported License.