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The resulting plot when a Love Triangle is used to illustrate the Aesop "Be Careful Who You Give Your Heart To".
Our heroine is a young woman with two suitors. Suitor #1 is rich and handsome. He is charming, witty, and charismatic. He seems to be everything a young woman would want. But he's not.
Suitor #2 appears to be flawed. If he's rich, he's not as rich as Suitor #1. If he's handsome, he's not as handsome. He could be many years older than our heroine. He often has the kind of personality that makes him hard to get to know.
So naturally, our heroine picks Suitor #1. And she's happy, for a while. But then things go horribly wrong.
Maybe Suitor #1 leaves town for a while and returns with a fiancée. Maybe his parents persuade him that our heroine isn't good enough for him. Maybe our heroine has money problems, or family problems, or health problems, and Suitor #1 uses them as an excuse to break things off. Maybe he keeps coming up with excuses to put off the marriage (Unable to Support a Wife, for example). By his actions, he has shown himself to be the wrong guy.
Just when our heroine despairs of any help, who arrives in her hour of need? Suitor #2! He doesn't expect our heroine to fall in love with him, but he helps her anyway. He just wants his beloved to be happy.
This story often has a happy ending. All that's needed is for the heroine to recognize that Suitor #2 is the right guy, and fall in love with him. He never cares that he's her second choice.
Why does the young woman choose the wrong guy first? Because if she picked the right guy first, there wouldn't be a plot.
In many cases, Suitor #1 may be the local bad boy, because... well, you know. If a character can never choose between two suitors, then this is a case of Betty and Veronica instead. Compare First Girl Wins. This same general plot can work with the genders inverted so that it's the Wrong Girl First.
This trope is often used by fanfic writers in a Die for Our Ship scenario, where Suitor #1 is portrayed as abusive and cruel (regardless of him/her really being like that or not) in order to justify having the young woman/young man run into the arms of Suitor #2.
Compare with False Soulmate, Last Girl Wins, and Romantic False Lead (which often overlap with this trope). The inversion is First Girl Wins. Compare and contrast with First Girl After All.
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"Til the Right Man Comes Along" by Tina Turner is about a woman who meets a guy at a club and immediately realizes he's not "the one" but is good enough until the right man comes along.
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In The Small House at Allington, part of The Chronicles of Barsetshire, Lily Dale picks Adolphus Crosbie over John Eames. Adolphus breaks their engagement to marry Lady Alexandrina de Courcy.
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Hope Floats. Here the initial decision is made pre-movie, but she's unceremoniously dumped on live television after he reveals he's cheating on her. The rest of the movie is about her moving back home and rekindling an old flame (while her daughter still idolizes her now-ex...with eventually tragic results).
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There was a male on Skins, with Chris initially going after Angie, his psychology teacher. As you can expect with a Teacher/Student Romance, it didn't end well. So he ended up with his best friend, Jal, who was willing to be there for him. He did consider going back to Angie for a time, but ultimately realized Jal was the best choice.
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In Great Expectations, Estella marries the abusive Bentley Drummle, Pip's rival, to spite Miss Havisham. He is later killed in a horse-riding accident, and in the Revised Ending (in the original ending she remarries with a different man), she reunites with Pip in a Maybe Ever After scene.
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In The Vicar of Dibley, Geraldine falls for David's brother, the cad, Simon. She ends up marrying the accountant Harry.
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Used in the plot of "The Way We Was" in The Simpsons: Marge goes with Artie Ziff to the prom, but afterwards, he reveals himself as a total self-centered sleaze who initially attempts to force himself on her. After slapping him in the face and eventually leaving him in disgust, she realizes she cares for Homer instead.
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Parks and Recreation:
In the first season, Leslie had a crush on Mark, which stemmed from a brief fling they had some years before the pilot. Mark, however, was the local Casanova and held no romantic feelings towards Leslie whatsoever. Eventually, Mark was Put on a Bus and replaced by Ben Wyatt, whom Leslie would go on to happily marry in Season 5.
Ann goes through several wrong guys before she found happiness. She began the show dating Andy and then broke up with him to go out with Mark, who had become a Ladykiller in Love with her. By the end of the second season, he was even set to propose to her before she dumped him, and Ann's reasoning for that was that while Mark was successful and mature, he just wasn't quite interesting enough. She later dates Chris, but when that fell through, she began going out with a revolving door of paramours, and even briefly went out with Tom for a period of time. Eventually, after several ups and downs, Ann gets back together with Chris.
Ann herself was the Wrong Girl First for Andy, who spent most of the time after she broke up with him trying to win her back before finally giving up. He would go on to find long-lasting love with April.
Ron went through two disastrous marriages (the first to a cold and domineering ice queen, the second to a nymphomaniac; both were named Tammy) before finding true love with the down-to-earth and sensible Diane.
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In Spider-Man Loves Mary Jane, MJ initially nurses a crush on the daring Super Hero Spider-Man, but after an awkward date with him eventually comes to the realization that she's actually in love with her geeky algebra tutor Peter Parker. Anyone who is familiar with the mythos will tell you the irony inherent in this little set-up.
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Inverted by Haruna of High School Debut. She initially falls for Fumi, a perfect example of Suitor #2, but instead ends up with Yoh, a textbook example of Suitor #1.
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Done twice in The Gardella Vampire Chronicles. Victoria has three love interests within the books. She marries Phillip, who gets vamped and she has to stake him. Later she has a fuckbuddy-type relationship with Sebastian but is obviously going to end up with Max.
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In Harry Potter, Harry, Ron, Hermione, and Ginny all date at least one person before getting together with their future husband/wife. At the age of seventeen/eighteen.
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In Sly 3: Honor Among Thieves, Sly is this to Penelope before she finally settles with Bentley. But in the next game, Penelope becomes the Wrong Girl First to Bentley.
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Scarily played straight in an episode of Beyond Belief: Fact or Fiction which has a young woman going to a match-making service. The elderly woman running the business has a son who she feels the woman may be interested in, but she ends up with a seemingly charming man, who one day as they're out driving and ostensibly run into some car trouble, decides to rape and murder her. After attempting to flee from him on foot, he catches up with her, only for the son to almost materialize out of nowhere, find them and fight off the attacker. They end up together after that.
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In The Tower of Druaga, Fatina falls for The Stoic bad boy Neeba in The Aegis of Uruk, but after Neeba and Kaaya's betrayal, develops feelings for Neeba's younger half-brother Jil. But this trope is subverted in the end in that Jil never gets over Kaaya and the two eventually make up, leaving Fatina as a romantic loose end once more.
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Boys over Flowers plays this trope nearly perfectly during the series.
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Double subverted in an episode of The Twilight Zone (1959). A young woman has two suitors, a rich one she doesn't care for and a poor one she does. The poor one asks her to run off with him. Her future self later chases her younger self on horseback, begging her not to marry the wrong man... the poor one, who turned out to be a money-hungry bastard and ruined her life.
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Noni is as happy as she can be with Kid Culprit in Beyond the Lights before Kaz comes along, which, as she's suffering from severe depression, isn't saying much. Her relationship with Kaz overlaps with Kid Culprit and it becomes pretty clear to her that Kaz is the better guy- leading to her swiftly ending things with the rapper. She DEFINITELY made the right choice!
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In Yona of the Dawn Yona spent years pining after Soowon until he murders her father and orders for her to be killed for witnessing it. She is saved in the knick of time by Hopeless Suitor Hak, who she eventually falls for as the series goes on.
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Far from the Madding Crowd by Thomas Hardy also has this, although it gets even more complicated with the addition of Suitor #3, who's not quite as graceful towards Suitor #1 as Suitor #2 is.
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Three events in Peach Girl are within lumping range of this trope, but in the first two, the demonstration of wrongness is false, and the third isn't so much Wrong Guy First as it is Less Right Guy First.
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In Republic of Doyle, Rose's first husband was a con artist. She found the right guy after he went to jail.
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Koi... Mil Gaya. The two main characters are rich girl Nisha and mentally disabled Rohit who become friends after Nisha learns about Rohit's disability and they both hide and protect the stranded alien Jadoo. However, Nisha's childhood friend Raj wants to marry her and has the approval of her parents despite being a vicious bully to Rohit. Rohit is later given powers by Jadoo. This causes Nisha to fall in love with him and she terminates her friendship with Raj permanently.
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In The Vampire Diaries, Elena loved Stefan first and thought that she would always love Stefan. She cared for Damon but didn't develop feelings for him until the end of season 2. To make it even better, her feelings for Damon become even more obvious at the beginning of season 3 when Stefan leaves with Klaus, switches his humanity off, and once again becomes the monstrous killer that he used to be. Damon then becomes her confidant and a method of comfort. Later on in the series, they date and are most likely the series's endgame.
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The Flash (2014): This exact situation is why Joe West refused to give Eddie Thawne his blessing when he asked for permission to ask Joe's daughter, Iris West, to marry him. Joe knew Iris was really in love with her best friend, Barry Allen, and if she married Eddie, she would eventually realize she married the wrong guy. Eddie himself contemplated this and it factored in his decision to break up with Iris. Iris herself, however, doesn't care if the one she's meant to be with is Barry, as, at the time, she only had eyes for Eddie. Ultimately, all of this is rendered moot when Eddie commits a Heroic Suicide in the Season 1 finale to stop the Big Bad and his descendant, Eobard Thawne.
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In Disney's Frozen, this is the signature twist of the story. Upending years of Disney Princess stories that stick close to Love at First Sight, this film reveals that Prince Hans is anything but good for Anna, and only in it for himself. Indeed, the very concept of Love at First Sight is attacked by pointing out that it is foolish to give your heart to someone you've only just met. How it all plays out must be seen to be appreciated. Elsa actually lampshades this: "You can't marry a man you just met."
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Averted in, of all places, Romeo and Juliet. Juliet never gives the obviously richer and parentally-endorsed Paris a thought. This ends badly, and, at least according to the standards of the time, she probably should have married Paris. But then the families would still be feuding, so yeah...
Of course, Romeo himself was pining for Rosaline before he became enamoured of Juliet. What makes Rosaline so wrong? Well, she's a Capulet, and she's entering a convent.
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Elizabeth Bennett of Pride and Prejudice is initially charmed by the smooth-talking Wickham, before Mr. Darcy exposes Wickham's true nature and wins Lizzy's heart. In a slight variation from form, Mr. Darcy is a much better catch than Wickham in every way: he is far wealthier, well-connected, young, handsome, kind — pretty much perfect, as many a fangirl will tell you — he just lacks Wickham's natural charisma and comes off as stoic and unfriendly — which, due to Values Dissonance, only earns him more points with modern fangirls. As Lizzy herself puts it, "One has all the goodness, and the other all the appearance of it!"
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In Glee, Rachel chooses bad boy Jesse first. No one was surprised when he treated her like crap after he got what he wanted out of her which was reuniting Rachel with her biological mother. Who is also Jesse's choir director, who told him to do it. He still egged her, though, which was definitely the asshole thing to do. Later she and Finn (who has been teased all season long) get together.
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Persuasion may be unique among stories for having a Wrong Guy First scenario where Suitor #1 and Suitor #2 are the same person, with eight years' growing-up in between.
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In The Prime Minister, one of the Palliser novels, Emily Wharton marries Ferdinand Lopez, who only wants her for her money. After his death, she marries the man who truly loves her, Arthur Fletcher.
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In The Rose of Versailles Oscar pines for Fersen for years...before she realizes she truly loves André.
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Spider-Man:
In Spider-Man Loves Mary Jane, MJ initially nurses a crush on the daring Super Hero Spider-Man, but after an awkward date with him eventually comes to the realization that she's actually in love with her geeky algebra tutor Peter Parker. Anyone who is familiar with the mythos will tell you the irony inherent in this little set-up.
MJ also goes through something similar with the charming-but-manipulative Harry Osborn, although mainly because Peter has started dating Gwen Stacy instead (hint: the romantic entanglements the teenagers in this 'Verse go through are complex indeed), and eventually breaks it off with him. In something of a reverse, Harry actually is in love with her, but MJ isn't in love with him and feels it would be unfair to string him along.
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In Anna Karenina, Kitty initially turns Levin down in favor of Vronsky, who immediately forgets her when he falls for Anna. Eventually, Kitty reconsiders her initial choice and she and Levin get married and presumably live Happily Ever After.
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In Sense and Sensibility, Mr. Willoughby dumps Marianne Dashwood for a rich woman. Marianne eventually marries Colonel Brandon. Elinor, for her part, is in many ways the right woman in Edward Ferrars' Wrong Woman First scenario; the two fall in love, but are prevented from acting on their feelings by Edward's rash earlier engagement to the opportunistic Miss Steele. Miss Steele eventually dumps Edward to marry his younger brother, who becomes heir to the family fortune after Edward's mother disowns Edward, ironically because he refused to break his vow to marry Miss Steele. This allows Edward and Elinor to act on their feelings and marry.
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Sam in Danny Phantom already harbored a crush on Danny throughout the entire series, but the first boy she dated and kissed (legitimately) was the Fauxreigner Gregor, an Ultra-Recyclo Vegetarian Goth like her. Naturally, it was love at first sight (although part of the reason is that at this point, Danny was unreachable romantically for her—his heart was still set on Valerie and/or Paulina). She finds out though that he's really just a con artist who wanted to get in her pants. She goes back to crushing on Danny and as bonus points, Danny starts realizing he likes her.
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Played with in the plot of New Moon: perfect prince Edward leaves Bella and sincere I Want My Beloved to Be Happy poster guy (for this book at least) Jacob happily sweeps up the ashes and befriends her. Subverted in that Wrong Guy First comes back in the end, and the rest of the series keeps them together from then on.
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In the Grand Finale Korra and Asami get a Relationship Upgrade, meaning that Mako was the wrong guy all along.
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In Unpacking the protagonist moves in with her boyfriend in 2010, with several indications that the relationship won't work out. In 2012 she's living with her parents again, having gone through what appears to have been a bad breakup. She then gets her own place in 2013 and by 2015 her girlfriend moves in with her.
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In The Hunger Games, Gale is the wrong guy, and Peeta is the right guy. However, Peeta is the kinder and more charming of the two, and Katniss doesn't want any relationship at all initially and is also doubtful about Gale to begin with.
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90210 features a variation of this trope: after years of being a troubled promiscuous drug-addict, Adrianna realizes Navid loved her all along and only cared for her happiness, and becomes his girlfriend even though she's pregnant with another guy's baby. Later on, she leaves Navid for a rich handsome jock, only to be left empty-handed as Teddy didn't want a relationship anyway.
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The Legend of Korra:
In the first season, Mako is faced with choosing between Korra and Asami and chooses Asami. This doesn't work out for various reasons and he becomes an official couple with Korra by season end. This turns out to be a subversion though as they're broken up during season 2.
In the Grand Finale Korra and Asami get a Relationship Upgrade, meaning that Mako was the wrong guy all along.
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In Lois & Clark, Lois very nearly marries Lex Luthor, of all people.
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Gossip Girl has that in a way: Blair chooses Nate (the good guy) over Chuck (the bad guy) even though the former cheated on her with her best friend (whom he was actually in love with) and the latter was always there for her and showed a hitherto-unknown human side when he started to like her.
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Sweet Home Alabama, where the main character almost ends up marrying her initial suitor, only to fall back in love with her old flame.
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Discussed in How I Met Your Mother. In season eight, Future Ted says that a man will always make one final, horrible mistake before meeting the woman he'll marry. This manifests in the present when younger Ted decides to start dating his Stalker with a Crush a few months before he meets the Mother at Barney and Robin's wedding.
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In The Last Dragon Chronicles Sophie is David's Wrong Girl First. He ends up falling in love with Zanna instead, but they stay friendly enough.
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In Cyrano de Bergerac, Roxanne falls in love with handsome, well-intentioned but vapid Christian because Cyrano (thinking he doesn't stand a chance with her and Playing Cyrano) wrote Christian's love letters for him. Really, it was Cyrano she was in love with all along.
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Friends, in the Backstory, features Rachel choosing Chip instead of Ross (she reveals in the Pilot that she knew about his feelings so it's not an oblivious choice). The former cheats on her, the latter eventually (as in many years later) becomes the love of her life.
Monica has two wrong guys first: To be fair both of them, one a Cool Old Guy and the other a Self-Made Man, were good guys any girl would be lucky to have, they just weren't good for Monica. (Richard was unsuited at a different stage of his life, while she and Pete were Too Much Alike.) Meanwhile, her best friend, neurotic, commitment-phobic, relationship-screw up Chandler hinted he had feelings for her a few times, which she took as a joke. They finally fell in love and were Happily Married for years.
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In Loveless, Rooney is revealed to have had an abusive ex-boyfriend, and she regrets giving up everything for him, including her Only Friend Beth. She struggles with letting go of the pain from her previous long-term relationship and wrestling with her feelings for Pip.
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