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Dear John.... is a British sitcom written by John Sullivan (of Only Fools and Horses fame) and starring Ralph Bates as John Lacey, a divorced man who was recovering from his ex-wife having left him for his best friend. Much of the comedy centred around his friendships with the members of the '1-2-1 Club', a support group for divorced and separated people.The show, which aired for two seasons (1986–87) on BBC1, came in at sixty-fourth in Britains Best Sitcom.Remade for American television with Judd Hirsch as Dear John...note Note that there are three periods in the title as opposed to four in the British version., which ran on NBC from 1988–92.Not to be confused with the 2010 film of the same name.For the trope about ending a relationship with letter, see "Dear John" Letter.
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Title Drop
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John actually gets one of these in an episode of the US show, resulting in an amusing Title Drop.
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Tropaholics Anonymous
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Tropaholics Anonymous: The 1-2-1 Club.
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The Vicar
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The Vicar: Or rather the Catholic Priest. Wendy decides Toby should go to a Catholic school, so she and John pretend they are still married. Of course, Hilarity Ensues.
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What Did I Do Last Night?
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What Did I Do Last Night?: The end of Kate and John's Not a Date
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Small Name, Big Ego
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Small Name, Big Ego: Kirk
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Divorce Assets Conflict
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Divorce Assets Conflict: John's ghastly ex-wife Wendy has taken everything.
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Not a Date
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Not a Date: Kate and John go for dinner once. Hilarity Ensues when they both drink too much and wake up in bed next to each other with no memory of what had happened after dinner.
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Taking the Kids
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Taking the Kids: Before the beginning of the first episode, no less.
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Citizenship Marriage
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Citizenship Marriage: Ralph's Polish ex-wife married him for citizenship.
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Transatlantic Equivalent
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Transatlantic Equivalent: The Judd Hirsch version.
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Dysfunction Junction
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Dysfunction Junction: As well as John and Ralph's problems above, Kate's been married and divorced three times due to being frigid, and where does one start with Kirk's problems?
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Jerk Jock
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Jerk Jock: One gets the impression Mike is the Jerk Jock grown up.
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"Dear John" Letter
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"Dear John" Letter: John actually gets one of these in an episode of the US show, resulting in an amusing Title Drop. Featured in the opening titles of both versions: the UK version starts with Wendy writing it, then John crumpling it up; the US version has John finding it on the carriage clock. The Expository Theme Tune also takes this form:
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Urban Legend Love Life
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Urban Legend Love Life: Kirk again. In one episode we actually find out that Kirk's real name is Eric Morris, and he's a wooly jumper-wearing nerd who lives with his mum and has never been married at all, let alone divorced. Averted in the US version, where Kirk's numerous affairs are obviously quite real.
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Casanova Wannabe
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Casanova Wannabe: Kirk, and he literally has a polyester suit and medallion!
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Crouching Moron, Hidden Badass
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Crouching Moron, Hidden Badass: Kirk as mentioned elsewhere is a Casanova Wannabe with a Small Name, Big Ego and a habit of claiming to be a spy and a black belt in karate when in fact he's a bespectacled, cardigan wearing wimp who lives with his mother and spends his time reading martial arts magazines. However in the final episode when the gang are threatened by four Hells Angels it turns out that his fighting skills aren't just boasts.
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Expository Theme Tune
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Featured in the opening titles of both versions: the UK version starts with Wendy writing it, then John crumpling it up; the US version has John finding it on the carriage clock. The Expository Theme Tune also takes this form:
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Catchphrase
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Catchphrase: Kirk: 'Cos that's the sort of man I am!' Louise: 'Were there any...sexual problems?'
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Break-Up Song
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Break-Up Song (relationship breakup): The theme tune.
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Annoying Laugh
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Annoying Laugh: Sylvia. Apparently, her ex-husband even informed her of this.
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Nice Guy
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Nice Guy: John is one, and sadly it has got him nowhere in life.
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The Nicknamer
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The Nicknamer: Kirk - 'Tiger', 'Ralphey' etc.
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No Name Given
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No Name Given: All the members of the 1-2-1 Club call each other by their first names, except for Mrs Arnott.
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Mail-Order Bride
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Mail-Order Bride: Ralph's ex-wife.
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Lyrical Dissonance
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Lyrical Dissonance: The theme song is an upbeat song...about a breakup.
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Have I Mentioned I Am Sexually Active Today?
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Have I Mentioned I Am Sexually Active Today?: Kirk's constant boasting.
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Digging Yourself Deeper
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Digging Yourself Deeper: Poor John is the king of this trope.
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The Good Old British Comp
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The Good Old British Comp: John teaches in one.
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Gallows Humor
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Gallows Humor: There is a lot of bittersweet humour about divorce, lack of love, and bad sex (or no sex).
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Will They or Won't They?
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Will They or Won't They?: Kirk/Kate, John/Kate
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Cut Short
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Cut Short: Star Ralph Bates died in 1991 so plans to continue the series were scrapped.
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