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The Upshaws is an American Dom Com created by Regina Y. Hicks and Wanda Sykes for Netflix. It's about the Upshaws, a black working-class Dysfunctional Family in Indiana. Bennie Sr. (Mike Epps): Bumbling Dad and car mechanic Regina (Kim Fields): Antics-Enabling Wife, Bennie's high school sweetheart Lucretia (Wanda Sykes): Regina's older sister, Maiden Aunt and additional parental figure to the kids Bernard Jr. (Jermelle Simon): Regina and Bennie's adult son from a Teen Pregnancy Aaliyah (Khali Spraggins): Regina and Bennie's somewhat Bratty Teenage Daughter Maya (Journey Christine): Regina and Bennie's adorable youngest daughter Kelvin (Diamond Lyons): Bennie's other son, the same age as Aaliyah, who he co-parents with his former fling Tasha (Gabrielle Dennis)The show is characterized by a duality of of cheesy sitcom jokes with a Laugh Track, and some brutally realistic characters and emotional dynamics.
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Pizza Boy Special Delivery
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Pizza Boy Special Delivery: Downplayed Trope. Bernard is a handsome fit young man who works as a UPS driver, and his short shorts are remarked upon.
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Fat and Skinny
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Fat and Skinny: Bennie has 3 employees at his auto shop: Tony (thin), Davis (fat) — and Duck (muscled).
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Heel–Faith Turn
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Heel–Faith Turn: Bennie's friend Duck went to prison, found Jesus while he was in there, and came out a changed man.
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Close to Home
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Close to Home: Because Bennie cheated on Regina with Tasha, Regina is livid when he finds out Lucretia is The Mistress to Captain Cam, a married man.
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Relationship Revolving Door
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Relationship Revolving Door: Played for Drama with Bennie and Regina. They've been together for 30 years, and during that time their relationship has been rocky, but pretty consistent. Regina has taken Bennie back, time and time again, after numerous rounds of his bullshit. This means Bennie can depend—accurately—on her eventual forgiveness, and he has little reason to change. When she throws him out near the end of season 1, even Lucretia—who would love to see Bennie gone for good—says Regina will probably forgive him eventually.
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Last Het Romance
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Last Het Romance: Bernard had sex with a woman once: his high school girlfriend Monique on the night of graduation. He regards her very highly, even a decade later. Afterwards, he didn't tell her he was gay, and she didn't tell him she was pregnant.
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Teen Pregnancy
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Teen Pregnancy: Regina got pregnant with her eldest son, Bernard, when she was 16. That was a long time ago, and in some ways it's settled, all's well that ends well. In other ways the shadow of it still hangs over everything.
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Transparent Closet
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Transparent Closet: Zigzagged with Bernard. Some people are somehow innately aware he's gay, while others are oblivious to the fact. Lucretia says she'd known since Bernard was a young flamboyant kid. Kelvin says he and Tasha are very aware because Tasha (a stylist by trade) can tell Bernard has well tended eyebrows. His high school girlfriend Monique suspected he was gay, and also cited his eyebrows as evidence. His parents, in contrast, are surprised to find out.
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Obnoxious In-Laws
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Obnoxious In-Laws: Regina's husband Bennie and sister Lucretia hate each other and are constantly sniping. They have occasional Aw, Look! They Really Do Love Each Other—at the very least, they both love Regina and will rally together for her when the need arises.
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Affair? Blame the Bastard
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Affair? Blame the Bastard: There is a tense relationship between Regina and Kelvin, her husband's son with another woman, conceived under "we were on a break" circumstances. Intellectually speaking she's trying to avert the trope — she knows it's not Kelvin's fault — but emotionally speaking the situation is still fraught. While she wouldn't say it to Kelvin's face, she very flippantly calls him Bennie's bastard when he's not around.
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In with the In Crowd
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In with the In Crowd: Aaliyah is obsessed with popularity, and becoming friends with Steph Greene. She looses her old best friend Savannah in the process.
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Hates Their Parent
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Hates Their Parent: Bernard openly resents his father Bennie for being largely absent during his younger years.
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Bunny-Ears Lawyer
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Bunny-Ears Lawyer: Downplayed Trope in Tasha, who is loud, colorful, and can be annoying at times, but owns her own business and appears to run it pretty well.
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Gym Bunny
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Gym Bunny: Downplayed Trope. Bernard is a fit young gay man who's into boxing.
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Epiphany Therapy
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Epiphany Therapy: Downplayed Trope. Regina has a breakthrough in 4.02 and it's a turning point, although not a cure-all.
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Fake High
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Fake High: In episode 1.09, 13-year-old Aaliyah steals a beer from the fridge to drink with her friend Savannah, not knowing that O'Doul's is nonalcoholic beer. They start speaking of the effects they're feeling after mere sips, and Savannah mixes up her drugs and says she's getting the munchies. When Regina catches them, she starts laughing hysterically. She uses it as a teachable moment, an opportunity to teach Aaliyah about the dangers of drinking, and doesn't tell her the truth. Aaliyah goes on to experience a psychosomatic hangover.
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They Call Me MISTER Tibbs!
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They Call Me MISTER Tibbs!: When Kelvin first spends time at the Upshaw house, he tries calling Lucretia "Auntie" like his sisters do. She objects. He tries "Lucretia," then "Ma'am." She tells him to call her "Ms. Turner."
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Relative Error: When Kelvin first comes into Aaliyah's life, people don't know he's her brother because 1) he's the same age as her, and 2) she's never talked about him before, leading to the mistake that he's her boyfriend.
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Bait-and-Switch
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Bait-and-Switch: Season 1 ends with a little girl arriving at the house looking for her father, Bernard Upshaw. This turns out to be Bernard Jr, conceived via his Last Het Romance.
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Commonality Connection
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Commonality Connection: In 1.06, Bennie gets a man to give him more time to fix his car by bonding with him over adultery.
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Two-Timer Date
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Two-Timer Date: The plot of the pilot involves Bennie running back and forth between Aaliyah and Kelvin's birthday parties. This introduces the fact that they're born less than a month apart.
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Maiden Aunt
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Maiden Aunt: Regina got pregnant when she was in high school. Lucretia dropped out of college and broke up with her world-traveling boyfriend, Frank, to take care of her sister and new baby nephew. Lucretia has dated since then, but never seriously. She never married or had children of her own, and instead devoted herself to being the backstop keeping Regina's family safe. The Deconstruction is that the resulting family dynamics can be messy. In a practical sense, this is Lucretia's family — this is the family she's spent decades taking care of; she's their financial safety net; she practically raised her nephew Bernard. But it's not officially her family, and this changes how her contributions are viewed. For example: money. If this were her family, providing financially would just be providing for her family, not worth commenting on. Because it's not, providing financially is alternatingly seen as very charitable, or a controlling-the-purse-strings power move. In a fight between the sisters, this gets pulled out:
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Not Me This Time
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Not Me This Time: Discussed in relation to Sydney. When she shows up on their doorstep looking for her father, everyone assumes she's Bennie's daughter. Bennie is offended by this assumption. Regina and Lucretia argue he has no grounds to be, considering Kelvin.
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Dom Com
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Dom Com: The Upshaws draw upon sitcom tropes from The '90s, like the bumbling husband and long-suffering wife.
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Bumbling Dad
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Bumbling Dad: Bennie is a layabout car mechanic and a Manchild who never grew up, in a frustrating but realistic way. Played with, in that show is tonally ambiguous about him. The family lives under the constant threat of Bennie's backsliding. Sometimes it really does frame him like a deadweight they should cut out, and other times that is walked back.
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Blame the Paramour
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Blame the Paramour: Bennie and Tasha briefly got together over a decade ago when Bennie and Regina were "on a break". The fact that Kelvin was conceived then keeps the incident very much alive in Regina's memory. In episode 2.6, Tasha calls Regina out on how unfair it is for her to deflect the resentment of the situation onto Tasha, rather than placing it on Bennie where it belongs.
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Family Theme Naming: The Turner sisters have Roman names: Althea, Lucretia, Regina.
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A Girl in Every Port
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A Girl in Every Port: Downplayed Trope. Lucretia has a boyfriend, Captain Cam, who's a pilot. He has a wife at home, and an ongoing affair with Lucretia when he flies in.
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Innocent Inaccurate: The parents' rocky relationship is such a staple of life in the Upshaw family that their daughters parody it with this little sketch. Aaliyah (13) knows her parents' fights end with makeup sex; Maya (6) thinks they end in some sort of conciliatory dance parties.
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Lower-Class Lout: One of the things Regina criticizes Tasha for is being trashy, but part of the reason Tasha is that way is because she's a Struggling Single Mother, a situation Regina intensifies by not liking Bennie to be too involved in that family.
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High-School Sweethearts: Why Bennie and Regina are together is a perpetual question. The simple answer is that they're High-School Sweethearts who had a Teen Pregnancy, and that tied them together. However, given how flaky Bennie is, and how eagar Lucretia would be to help Regina leave Bennie, it's very easy to imagine a scenario where they didn't stay together, suggesting there might be something more to the reason they did.
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Antics-Enabling Wife: Alongside Bennie's Bumbling Dad, Regina's role as the long-suffering wife is also played with. She is definitely the more stable, responsible parent, who holds their household together, but she's no saint. The show is very blunt about how Regina is a major player in creating the difficult situations she finds herself in. Regina is not trapped in this marriage — Lucretia would love to help her leave, and the relationship itself is a somewhat rocky one. There's blame aplenty for Bennie for being a poor husband and father, but there's also blame for Regina, who keeps keeps taking Bennie back even though she knows damn well what he is. She's made her own bed here.
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